Tobiah Marries Sarah
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Tobiah and Raphael arrive in Ecbatana (the location of Sarah’s family).
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At the House of Raguel
- Tobiah and Raphael arrive in Ecbatana.
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They are greeted by Sarah’s parents — Raguel and Edna
- Raguel is modeled after Abraham (Bergant 1992, p. 838)
- Raguel and Edna recognize Tobiah as related to Tobit based on Tobiah’s appearance (i.e. he looked similar to Tobit)
- Raguel, Edna, and Sarah all wept for Tobit after hearing that Tobit had lost his eyesight.
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Marriage of Tobiah and Sarah
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Tobiah told Azariah to ask Raguel to let Sarah marry Tobiah.
- Raguel overheard Tobiah asking Azariah about marrying Sarah.
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Raguel agreed to allow Sarah to marry Tobiah:
- Because Tobiah is Raguel’s closest relative.
- And per the law of Moses of marriage within an ancestral tribe
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A marriage contract was made giving Sarah to Tobiah.
- The wedding itself follows the pattern of a marriage contract found among the fifth century B.C.E. papyri discovered at Elephantine in Egypt. The marriage contract of Mibtahiah reads: “She is my wife and I am her husband from this day forever” (Bergant 1992, p. 838)
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Edna prepared the bedroom for Tobiah and Sarah.
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Edna said the following to Sarah: “May the Lord of heaven grant you joy in place of your grief. Courage, my daughter.” (Tb 7:17)
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Per the Collegeville Bible Commentary, this scene fits the common pattern for betrothals in the Old Testament:
- The father commands his son to take a journey to find a bride among his own kindred.
- The travelers are given a meal but refuse to eat until the betrothal is arranged.
- The host yields, recognizing that the marriage has been decided by the Lord.
- The father commands his son to take a journey to find a bride among his own kindred.
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By using the common pattern of the betrothal scenes the author is linking the marriage of Tobit and Sarah to the patriarchal marriages, a connection already made by Tobit in Tb 4:12 (Bergant 1992, p. 838)
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Additional Comments:
- Throughout the book of Tobit and the Bible, ‘Courage’ seems to be an important element to being healed by God. I would imagine in our own lives it is important for us to have courage as well when asking God to be healed or saved.
- Throughout the book of Tobit and the Bible, ‘Courage’ seems to be an important element to being healed by God. I would imagine in our own lives it is important for us to have courage as well when asking God to be healed or saved.